Addiction can place significant strain on your relationship and ultimately lead to the breakdown of your marriage. If you are considering divorcing an addict, you likely have a strong reason for doing so. Approaching the divorce process strategically is important to protecting your rights and safety. 

Our team will put considerable time and effort into protecting you and your children during this very difficult time and long into your future.  

Protecting Yourself and Your Children 

Divorcing an addict is about more than just ending a marriage. You may also be considering divorce as a means to ensure your safety and protect your children. 

Still, you might feel complex emotions around the divorce. Perhaps your spouse has changed significantly since they began struggling with addiction, and you miss the person they were before their substance abuse became an issue. Or maybe you want to hold on to the idea that they could one day overcome their addiction. 

Through these emotions and thought processes, it is essential to prioritize your family’s safety above all else. In some cases, divorce may be a necessary step to protect yourself, and understanding your rights can help you navigate this process smoothly. 

Proving Addiction in Court

The court may take your spouse’s addiction into account when making decisions about custody, visitation, spousal support, division of assets, and more. Depending on the circumstances, your divorce attorney may help you collect evidence to prove your spouse’s addiction, such as:

  • Medical records
  • Police reports
  • Witness testimonies from neighbors or therapists

Presenting this evidence in court could help the judge make informed decisions about your spouse’s ability to parent or manage finances. Additionally, if you have previously been responsible for expenses like rehabilitation therapy, you may want to bring these up during discussions of asset division and alimony. 

Considering How Addiction Might Impact Custody

Addiction can impact a person’s ability to safely parent their children. The court aims to encourage children to spend time with their parents while also prioritizing their best interests when making decisions regarding custody.

If addiction poses a risk, the court might only allow supervised visitation rights for that parent. The court might also mandate other measures, such as routine drug testing, to monitor the addicted parent’s behavior and parenting abilities.  

The Importance of Iron-Clad Agreements 

When divorcing an addict, there might be a level of unpredictability around whether they will relapse, what their finances will look like in the future, and how their behavior will change. An iron-clad divorce agreement can help protect against future disputes and uncertainties. 

Work with a lawyer to create detailed, enforceable agreements on issues like:

  • Who can make decisions for your shared children
  • Any substance use conditions your spouse must meet, such as random testing
  • What custody and visitation will look like
  • Who will financially support the children

If your spouse’s behavior changes after the divorce, you can refer back to these agreements for guidance. 

Divorcing an addict presents unique challenges. Whether you are navigating a custody battle or sorting through feelings of codependency, Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., can provide legal guidance through this process. Call (866) 311-4783 for a confidential consultation. 

Divorce sometimes provokes adversarial actions in people. If you are going through a divorce and your spouse has intentionally spent a large sum of money from your shared accounts, you might be feeling hurt, betrayed, or angry. Understanding your options can help you navigate this situation and start rebuilding your finances. 

The most important factor here is the date of separation. If you and your spouse agreed to divorce and then they went on a spending spree, your case is much easier to prove.  

Proving Their Financial Behavior

Perhaps your spouse went on a “revenge spending spree” as a way to retaliate against you for initiating a divorce or taking other actions they find unfavorable. Perhaps they gambled away your shared assets or spent a substantial amount of money on a vacation. In any case, the money is gone, and you are likely wondering what steps you can take next. 

Again, we rely on the date of separation – and if your divorce is already filed, then even better.  

Gathering evidence that your spouse intentionally wasted your money is key. Request copies of all financial records showing these activities. For example, your credit card statement will show all the transactions that led to the card being maxed out, along with the dates of each transaction. 

These financial records will help you prove that the overspending was intentional and not part of your family’s normal spending habits. 

Exploring Solutions for Wasteful Spending 

Your divorce attorney can help you explore your options after your spouse intentionally wastes money in your shared accounts or shared assets. They can also petition the court to mandate that your spouse return the funds they spent, and we will work with you to ensure that any available funds are used to compensate you.  

During the divorce proceedings, your attorney can help you request an equitable distribution of assets that accounts for the money spent by your spouse. In some cases, the court may adjust the division of marital assets to reflect one party’s excessive spending. 

Preventing Future Spending and Rebuilding

Taking steps to safeguard your assets can help you prevent your spouse from further unauthorized withdrawals. 

  • Freeze all shared accounts and credit cards to prevent any unauthorized transactions. 
  • Monitor financial activity closely and notify your bank if you suspect any wasteful or extravagant spending by your spouse.
  • Open a separate bank account and start transferring your income into it. Take caution when transferring funds from your existing accounts, as such actions could be scrutinized during your divorce proceedings. 
  • Have our team put clear agreements in place regarding all financial matters as we work to finalize your divorce.  

Divorce has financial implications even when both spouses cooperate fully. You may want to consider taking steps to start rebuilding your financial situation now. For example, you might want to explore a part-time job or a higher-paying career path. It may also be helpful to start calculating whether you can afford major expenses, such as a mortgage or car payments, on your own. 

Turn to Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., for Assistance 

If your spouse has spent an excessive amount of money from shared accounts, there may be additional challenges to prepare for during the divorce process. Having a legal professional on your side can help you respond to your spouse’s behaviors appropriately while protecting your interests. 

Whether you are encountering a custody battle, alimony disputes, or other elements of a contested divorce, turn to Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., for assistance. Call (866) 311-4783 to request a consultation. 

Divorcing later in life, sometimes referred to as gray divorce, presents a few unique challenges. The longer you have shared a life with someone, the more interwoven your finances, assets, and livelihoods have likely become. Untangling these matters may benefit from the support of an experienced legal professional. 

Understanding the complications that sometimes arise with this process could help you feel more confident navigating them. 

Essential Considerations When Divorcing Later in Life 

Perhaps you and your spouse are nearing retirement age, or your adult children have recently moved out of the house. Many circumstances might prompt a couple to divorce later in life. When going through divorce proceedings, consider how you and your spouse will navigate each of the following potential issues. 

  • Supporting two households: You and your spouse are used to sharing expenses. Now, the income you previously shared to support one household will need to stretch farther to support two entirely separate households. 
  • Retirement: You and your spouse will need to divide retirement assets that you might have previously planned to share. This reduces the funds you each have available and may delay your retirement.  
  • Alimony: Alimony is somewhat common for couples divorcing later in life. If one spouse earns significantly more than the other, consider how alimony might be a factor in your divorce. 
  • Estate planning adjustments: You and your spouse might each need to adjust your estate plans to reflect your new marital status. You may need to remove each other as beneficiaries, update power of attorney documents, and adjust your life insurance policies. 
  • Adult children: If you and your spouse were planning to pay for major expenses such as college or weddings for adult children, talk about how you will approach these costs when separated. 

Consider Alternative Dispute Resolution for “Late Life” Divorce

Some couples who divorce later in life benefit from alternative dispute resolution methods as opposed to going to court and allowing a judge to make major decisions for them. For example, divorce mediation encourages you and your spouse to discuss and reach a mutual agreement on issues such as the division of assets and alimony. 

Alternative dispute resolution methods are sometimes less stressful and emotionally taxing than going to court. They could allow you and your spouse to maintain a cooperative dynamic after the divorce and avoid the tensions that sometimes arise when going through a court battle. 

How an Attorney Can Assist This Process

An experienced legal professional can help you navigate the many complexities of divorcing later in life. A divorce attorney will help you consider all potential complications in the divorce and explore alternative dispute resolution processes with you. They can review your divorce settlement agreement and identify any potential issues that may lead to future financial problems.

Consult Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C. 

If you are divorcing later in life or considering a legal separation, Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., can assist with evaluating your legal options during this process. Contact us today at (866) 311-4783 to schedule a confidential consultation.  

When you picture going through a divorce, you may envision you and your spouse each retaining your own attorney and passing much of the responsibility over to these legal professionals. But you may wonder: Can you negotiate your divorce yourself?

Negotiating the division of assets without a legal professional might make sense in certain cases. However, we highly recommend that you have an attorney review your final agreements.  And, if you have any reason to head to court, a Bucks County divorce attorney should be by your side. You want to protect your rights, and with self-representation, you might risk overlooking important legal considerations that could have financial implications. 

Benefits of Negotiating Your Divorce Yourself

For divorcing couples wanting to save money, it can be helpful to make preliminary agreements.  

This may save you a significant amount of time, especially if you and your spouse can reach a consensus fairly quickly.

  • It gives you and your spouse full control over certain outcomes in your divorce case without involving outside parties.
  • It saves you money on attorney’s fees. 

If you and your spouse are filing for an uncontested divorce, meaning you agree on all matters in the divorce case, you might be able to navigate the process without an attorney. 

However, we also caution you to really think through what you are agreeing to. The plan your spouse presents to you might seem equal and fair, but if your spouse had help with it, there may be an imbalance of knowledge or power. 

Potential Downsides of Negotiating Your Own Divorce

Sometimes, a pro se divorce, a divorce in which you represent yourself, could prevent you from achieving a favorable outcome. It could also lead you to overlook potential issues that might cause negative financial consequences. 

For example, perhaps your spouse agrees to give you the family home, but she is going to keep her entire retirement savings, including pension benefits.  

While you may be thrilled with the idea of keeping the home, you would walk away with an asset that requires maintenance, and you would have to ensure you can refinance the mortgage in your name. These details are critical to unpack before you sign on the dotted line.  

Your spouse may also ask that you split any debt, including car loans, student loans, and credit cards. However, we want to make sure that the debt is assigned to the spouse who will hold the asset.  

How a Divorce Attorney Can Assist

Attempting to work through ALL of the agreements on your own may only lead to further tensions and consume more time during your divorce process. With the help of a legal professional, you can use tools like divorce mediation to reach decisions on key issues. 

Your attorney can also find problems in your divorce settlement agreement before you file it. For example, how are you dividing assets? Which party will claim the children as dependents for tax purposes? How long will you or your spouse owe alimony?

Working with a legal professional could help clarify complex issues and streamline the divorce or legal separation process. 

Seek Guidance From Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C.

Can you negotiate your divorce yourself? You can, but we don’t recommend it. Working with an experienced legal professional such as Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., can help protect your interests, reduce stress, and lead to a better outcome. Contact us today at (866) 311-4783 for a consultation.

If you and your spouse have begun the divorce process, you may be considering moving out of the marital home. This would give you space from each other and allow you to start building your new life.

But before moving out during divorce, consult an attorney about whether this makes sense for your case. These are a few potential repercussions to be aware of. 

Moving Out Can Have Child Custody Implications

You may feel that moving out of the family home is a considerate step, giving you and your spouse space from each other. But in some cases, the court may view this as evidence that you are not involved in daily parenting responsibilities. It may even flag you for “spousal abandonment,” which means you left the marital home without your spouse’s consent. 

You do not want the court to view you as the “non-custodial parent” from the beginning. Staying in the family home demonstrates that you contribute to your children’s upbringing, making it more likely that the court would award custody to you or shared custody to both parents. In contrast, the court may view you moving out as abandoning your parental obligations. 

Paying Double Bills Can Impact Your Financial Position

As long as you are still on the lease or mortgage for your shared home, you are likely financially responsible for half of the monthly housing costs. Moving into a new apartment or home will require you to pay double housing costs during the divorce process. This can harm your financial position. 

Your finances affect several aspects of the divorce process. The judge will scrutinize your transactions when considering child custody, spousal support obligations, division of assets, and more. Generally, you should avoid any behaviors that hurt your finances during this process. 

Moving Out Might Make It More Challenging To Keep the Home

If you voluntarily move out of the marital home during the divorce process, you risk being unable to keep the home after the divorce. 

The court may grant exclusive occupancy rights to your spouse, especially if they have primary custody of shared children. If you have already moved out voluntarily, the court may assume that you are in favor of these occupancy rights. 

Carefully consider housing and custody before making any decisions early in the divorce process. While you may initially feel okay about your spouse keeping the family home, you may change your mind later. Moving out could influence how the court approaches decisions about property ownership or use during the divorce. 

Consult Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., Before Moving Out

Before moving out during divorce, consult an experienced attorney and create a detailed plan for custody and housing costs. In some instances, moving out is the right choice, such as if you feel unsafe in the home. However, it’s important to understand the potential repercussions and seek an attorney’s advice before doing so. 

At Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., we advise clients on how to protect their marital property rights. Schedule a confidential consultation with our divorce attorneys by calling (866) 349-4117.

If you and your spouse have decided to divorce, you might feel eager to begin moving forward and start your new life. However, caution is recommended when making big decisions, especially those involving finances. Here are a few reasons to consider postponing major financial changes until after the divorce is finalized. 

Making Big Purchases Might Impact Your Eligibility for Refinancing the Mortgage

The property division process often requires couples to purchase new vehicles to replace the ones they previously shared. However, before you buy a new car, consider whether you will need to refinance your mortgage after the divorce.

For example, perhaps you and your spouse are both on the mortgage now, but you plan to keep the family home. You might refinance the mortgage to seek a better rate and account for your new sole ownership. Purchasing a vehicle immediately before applying for a mortgage can significantly impact your eligibility and rates. 

Your lender determines your loan eligibility based on your current assets and income. If either of these changes, they may need to reconsider the loan, adding time to the refinancing process and potentially leaving you with worse interest rates. 

Selling Assets Could Lead to Disputes During Property Division 

Pennsylvania follows an equitable distribution policy for divorce, which means the court seeks to divide assets fairly between spouses. Selling assets or making major investments immediately before the divorce could lead to disputes during the property division process.

A judge may assume you were trying to devalue the estate or hide assets. It may be better to delay big financial decisions until after the divorce, when the property division is finalized. 

The Court Could Impute Income for Alimony or Child Support

When a spouse is “underemployed” in a divorce, meaning they work below their skill level and potential earnings, the court may impute income. This means the court would base spousal support and child support on their earning potential rather than actual earnings. 

If you are currently underemployed, consider exploring other employment opportunities to increase your income. Otherwise, the court may base support obligations on imputed income, which could lead to higher payments than you can reasonably afford. 

Your Financial Habits Could Affect Child Custody Choices

Showing that you are financially responsible is important when navigating the child custody process. Remember, your financial decisions leading up to the divorce can affect your reputation in the eyes of the court. 

The judge may scrutinize your transactions to look for signs that you are financially unstable or irresponsible. Even if you can justify the major purchases you made, a judge may not view them the same way you do. 

Consult With Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., Before You Make Big Divorce Decisions 

Seeking counsel from an experienced divorce attorney can help you determine which financial decisions and transactions might impact your divorce process. Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., advises clients throughout the asset protection process, divorce mediation, and child custody negotiations. Schedule a confidential phone consultation with our divorce attorneys by calling (866) 349-4117. 

Divorce can be especially complex when young children are involved. This process often significantly impacts child development. Navigating it successfully is important to your child’s well-being. 

As you approach a divorce with young children, keeping a few considerations in mind can help you traverse this process more smoothly. You won’t be able to predict everything your child will need, but you can better anticipate the major concerns that may arise after the divorce. 

Where Will They Attend School?

Divorce is a major change for children, and keeping as much of their lives the same as possible can help them better adapt to this new norm. Consider whether your child will be able to attend the same school, or whether child custody arrangements will move them into a different district during school days.

Then think about logistical details, such as:

  • Transportation to and from school
  • After-school care
  • Attendance at parent-teacher conferences

How Will You Approach Extracurricular Activities?

Navigating extracurricular activities can be challenging when parenting time is shared and those activities overlap with both parents’ time with the child. Will you both be involved in these activities? Will one parent be responsible for taking them to all practices and games? How will you approach extracurricular activities that fall into the other parent’s parenting time? 

How Will You Approach Future Educational Expenses? 

Child support calculations are generally determined by state law, but it may be helpful to think long-term about future financial responsibilities, such as college. Will both parents contribute to the child’s college fund? Will neither? Have these discussions now to avoid disputes years down the line. 

What Parenting Time Schedule Makes Sense? 

The main goal of developing a parenting plan should be prioritizing the child’s best interests. With this in mind, what parenting schedule makes sense for your child? Some families split time between weekdays and weekends. Others divide time between the school year and summer. 

How Will You Successfully Co-Parent? 

Implementing effective co-parenting strategies can help you promote your child’s well-being. Think about strategies you can use to create consistency for your child, such as:

  • Letting the child stay in one home while both parents take turns living in the home
  • Keeping holiday plans consistent from year to year
  • Giving the child plenty of advance notice about changes to the typical parenting schedule

How Might Your Parenting Plan Change As Your Child Ages? 

Going through a divorce with young children requires you to think long-term about what aspects of your parenting plan might change over time. As your child ages, their needs and routines will change. They will gain independence and spend less time with their parents in general. They may also have stronger opinions about which parent they want to live with and how they spend their time. 

Consider how you will adapt to changes and the level of flexibility you want to maintain in your parenting plan. 

Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C.: Protecting Your Parental Rights 

Divorcing with young children can present complex challenges, but at Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., we provide guidance to parents navigating this process. Contact us at (866) 349-4117 for a confidential consultation. 

How do I file my taxes if I am getting a divorce?  

Going through a divorce can bring tax implications that you may not be aware of until long after you finalize the proceedings. What should you expect when it comes time for your first tax filing after your divorce? Our team will review the details based on your specific divorce. Here are some details to help answer your questions.  

First and foremost, you file your taxes based on your status as of December 31st of the previous year. If you were officially divorced by December 31st of the previous year, then you are going to file on your own. If you were not divorced by the end of the year, then you have the option to file together or file separately. Each has advantages and disadvantages, which an accountant can review with you at tax time.  

Understand the Long-Term Implications That Await

Dissolving your marriage means you’ll (more than likely) no longer share marital assets with your spouse and, instead, become the sole owner of various investments or properties. When you report your income to the IRS as an unmarried individual, the taxes owed can look quite different from when you were married. 

Say you plan to stay in the home you shared with your spouse, which calls for them to receive more in retirement investments, so your division of assets remains equitable. You will be responsible for any capital gains tax when you eventually sell the home. Consult an accountant to learn about divorce and tax deductions that come with the assets you receive following a marriage. 

Navigating Filing Status Changes Amid a Divorce

Your first tax filing after your divorce may not bring immediate changes, depending on the timing. 

Remember, if you finalize your divorce in January of 2026, the IRS will recognize you as married for the 2025 tax year because your divorce was not finalized before the December 31 deadline. In this case, you could file your 2025 taxes jointly or as married filing separately.

Changes could be afoot when you have to file as a single individual. For example, you could claim head of household status if you meet the following criteria:

  • Being either single, divorced, or legally separated on the last day of the tax year
  • Paying more than half of a household’s necessary expenses throughout the year
  • Living with a dependent for at least six months

Are alimony and child support taxable income?  

The simple answer here is usually not. However, if you were divorced long ago, you may be required to still count alimony as income for tax purposes.  

Become Familiar With Alimony Tax Rules and Child Tax Credits

If you have young children, your divorce decree will name a custodial parent. The custodial parent is the person who has the children in their care for the majority of the year. This person can claim child tax credits. 

Our Divorce Attorneys Are on Your Side – Contact Us Today

Don’t approach a tax filing after your divorce without proper knowledge. Team up with Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C., and let our resourceful attorneys prepare you for all aspects of a divorce. We have years of experience practicing family law and are ready to see you through this transition. 

Call (866) 261-9529 or use our online booking tool to schedule a free legal consultation.

Transitioning from a dual-income household to a single-income household after a divorce calls for accurate and detailed expense tracking. Figuring out your post-divorce budget is critical for living within your means and avoiding financial hardships. 

Our team will work with you on your post-divorce budget. This budget will serve as a guidepost for when we negotiate alimony, child support, and the division of assets and debts.  

How do you budget for your post-divorce life on a single income? Take these steps so you do not struggle financially.   

Gather Accurate Information Regarding Monthly Income and Expenses

As we prepare a strategy to negotiate, we will ask for ALL of the details of your anticipated post-divorce budget, including a detailed breakdown of your monthly income and expenses. We will use pay stubs, investment income, and any other incoming cash you receive. If you do not regularly track your expenses, then we will ask you to track receipts and go through credit card statements. Typical expenses can include:  

  • Rent or mortgage payments
  • Utility costs
  • Groceries
  • Transportation
  • Existing loan payments
  • Personal care
  • Entertainment

Sometimes we talk about adjusting lifestyle expenses so you live within your means, possibly just in the short term, so you can reach your post-divorce financial goals. 

Consider Your Children’s Expenses

When you share children with your ex, the cost of caring for them becomes vital for determining alimony and budgeting properly. You and your spouse will both share financial responsibility for your children based on the number of overnights the children stay with each of you. Think about how much you spend on your children each month. These costs may include:

  • Daycare programs
  • School lunch plans
  • Extracurricular activities and hobbies
  • Tutoring programs
  • Medical care 

Your lawyer can negotiate a settlement based on your custody agreement so your children are cared for in a way that is financially reasonable for both parents. 

Plan for Educational Costs

No matter how old they are at the time of your divorce, it’s important to include college tuition agreements for your kids in your settlement. Figuring out a plan for your child’s education in advance can save you and your co-parent financial headaches down the road and ultimately set your child up for a successful future. 

It’s not just children’s educational costs that come into play. Do you anticipate taking some courses or earning a degree so you can bring new skills into the workforce? Research the cost of advancing your education and account for this in your post-divorce budget. 

Set Aside Emergency Funds

An important part of financial planning after divorce is preparing for the unexpected. What would you do if your car suddenly broke down and you had to pay thousands for a new one? Would an urgent medical crisis put you into debt?

Establish an emergency savings account and commit to putting a little bit in it each month. This account will build over time, so you eventually accrue enough to cover six months of your living expenses. Having this safety net will give you peace of mind should you lose your job or face some other financial hardship.

Team Up With a Trusted Divorce Attorney

Creating a post-divorce budget will help you move on from your marriage and be financially independent. Approach this process with the help of Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C. Contact our family law firm at (866) 261-9529 or submit our online form to schedule a consultation.

Simply ending your Bucks County marriage cannot cause your credit score to drop. The actions you and your spouse take before, during, and after your divorce can cause credit problems in the short term and long into the future. You can mitigate credit damage by reassessing your financial obligations during proceedings, ensuring bills are paid, and separating your financials as soon as possible.  

Below, we discuss the connection between divorce and your credit score, as well as tips to limit the fallout.  

Be Strategic About Paying Bills

Your credit score after divorce can remain the same as during your marriage as long as you pay your bills on time. Financial separation is crucial during this period, so you (and you alone) are responsible for your bills.  

Think about the bills in your name and who pays for them. For example, paying off your credit card each month will remain your responsibility if the account belongs to you alone. Joint assets can create problems for divorcing spouses, especially if they default on a loan.

Say you and your spouse share a home, and both of your names appear on the deed and mortgage. If you move out and don’t pay your share of the mortgage, your credit can suffer because your name is still attached to the loan. 

The connection between divorce and lower credit scores often has to do with not paying bills. Whether this is due to stress or lifestyle changes, your credit score might take a hit. 

Don’t Take On New Debt

Lawyers often guide couples through the complex process of divorce and debt division. Legal professionals strongly advise against taking on new debt, especially if the asset doesn’t belong to you. This includes:

  • Mortgages
  • Car payments
  • Student loans
  • Credit card debt

You could be on the hook for payments that you agreed to during your marriage, especially if you signed as a primary or co-signer for your spouse. For example, if a husband has student loan debt and the wife was a co-signer on that loan, she could become liable for future payments despite a divorce. If she stops paying amid a separation and the husband is not able to pay, then the wife’s credit score could be impacted.

Avoid Joint Account Liability

Perhaps the biggest credit impact of divorce boils down to keeping joint accounts when you’re no longer legally married. Start over by closing these accounts and only using bank or credit card accounts solely in your name. I recommend this step because it helps alleviate certain financial obligations tied to your ex once you officially end the marriage. 

Changing your existing account numbers in case your former spouse still has access to them is a good idea. For example, your computer may save one of your credit cards and allow your ex to make purchases on your dime. Changing your account information prevents this, helping you achieve an independent financial future. 

Prepare for Your Future With a Professional Divorce Attorney

Mitigate the impact of divorce and your credit score with the help of Karen Ann Ulmer, P.C. Our knowledgeable family lawyers can guide you through proceedings and assist with child custody agreements, alimony, and more. 

Call (866) 261-9529 or submit our online booking form to request a consultation – we’re standing by and ready to help.